Auntie Emily Days build deeper bonds with nieces and nephew
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Emily Cappiello began planning individual outings, called “Auntie Emily Days”, with each of her seven nieces and nephews to move beyond being simply the “fun aunt.”
Cappiello realized she wasn’t truly connecting with the children as they grew older and often relied on their mothers to determine appropriate gifts. She now asks each child to suggest an activity, allowing them to guide the day and pursue their own interests without sibling competition.
During these one-on-one adventures, Cappiello observes distinct personalities emerge. She notes that her nieces and nephew feel comfortable sharing more personal thoughts and worries when they aren’t around parents or siblings, creating a space for trust and open communication. Cappiello emphasizes she respects their privacy and doesn’t share everything with their parents, fostering a sense of ownership over their experiences. Cappiello found that consistent, dedicated time with each child proved more meaningful than simply attending events.
She aims to be known as someone who actively listens, asks genuine questions, and prioritizes their individual passions, building a relationship based on connection rather than just occasional fun. This approach allows her to witness their growth and celebrate their milestones from a unique perspective, even without being a parent herself.
